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In College, I could walk clear
across campus in thirty minutes. I know
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because I timed it. This meant
that it didn't matter where two classes were
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located back to back. As long
as I had at least thirty minutes in
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between them, I could get where
I needed to go. But boy did
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my legs burn. It happened a
few times where I would end a class
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on the far west side of campus
and have thirty minutes to make it to
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a building on the extreme east end. I made it work by adopting a
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singular strategy to walk as fast as
I could, with my head down and
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headphones in my ears, so no
one would recognize me and stop to talk.
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Or even if they did recognize me, they would read my body language
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and know that I was in no
condition to be stopped. In this way,
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I was never late. In fact, I was usually early, giving
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myself some time to sit down at
a desk and rub my calves while everyone
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else started to roll in. No, I was never laid, but the
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other thing I never was was accompanied. I spoke to no one and was
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never spoken to on those walks.
I imagine there were many others like me
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passing their way to class, gloriously
efficient, ready and willing to learn what
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they could on time, with note
books of the ready and we were,
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all of us passing each other like
drifting ghosts, full of purpose and entirely
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alone. Welcome back to remote,
a series on BB growth about where remote
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cultures breakdown and how to make them
stronger than ever. My name is Ryan
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Drotty and I'm the director of culture
and people opps, a sweet fish media
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which has been a fully remote team
for the entirety of its existence. Today
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I want to talk to you about
the importance of having built in expected personal
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conversations with the people you work with
at your remote company. First, let
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me clear something up. You might
argue that carrying about other people on your
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team is a broader culture issue,
one that every company should pay attention to,
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and that's true, but there's a
reason it deserves special consideration at remote
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companies. In an office setting,
personal conversations just happen. You could even
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try to force your team not to
talk about their personal lives in the office,
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and they're going to do it anyway. The reason is because they're stuck
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in a building with other humans day
after day and they're not going to use
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every chance encounter with co workers to
talk about how they're performing against their Kpis.
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Remote environments have no such forcing function. If you let remote meetings be,
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they can easily become ruthlessly efficient.
For whatever reason, time tends to
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feel less generous, more claustrophobic.
On remote meetings. Everyone knows when the
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meeting starts and when it ends,
and there's no lag time entering a room.
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You show up on a conference call
and there you are, ready to
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dive into the agenda after the obligatory
pleasantries. Watching the manner in which someone
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walks into a room and sits down
is better conversation fodder than you might think.
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Then take the example of time left
over at the end of a meeting.
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If an office meeting ends fifteen minutes
early, a few people will likely
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linger during the allotted time to catch
up on a remote call. However,
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if you run out of things to
talk about before the end, the facilitator
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tells you they're going to give you
fifteen minutes back in your day, as
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if they're the keeper of time and
can distribute it out as they please,
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and then they end the video call. You can't linger and talk to other
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people even if you want to.
What getting fifteen minutes back doesn't give you
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is any personal connection. Having an
extra fifteen minutes to do work is nice,
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but in the long run it hurts
more than it helps, because it
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keeps people from learning to trust and, yes, even like the people they
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work with. There are plenty of
implications for managers here too. Not all
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performance issues are created equal. Sometimes
team members are not working when they say
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they are, or they're simply not
getting the job done consistently for one reason
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or another. These are ongoing issues, but many other times performance dips because
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of personal strife or grief, mental
health issues or technological malfunctions. These are
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temporary issues that are not long term
concerns. But you won't know the difference
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if you don't know the person in
person. You can read body language,
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see that they're withdrawn, listen to
their tone of voice remotely. When someone
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is going through a difficult circumstance that
affects their work, it looks drastically different.
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It looks like slow email response times, sloppy fact checking, messages at
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odd hours and continuous disengagement from channels
in which they are normally active. In
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short, for managers, context is
everything, and you'll never have the full
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context without a decently robust personal relationship. There's also this little radical concept known
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only to a select group of Tibetan
cave monks. It's called enjoying your job.
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It's we fish. We like to
say ninety thousand hours of your life
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shouldn't suck, ninety thousand being a
rough estimate of the amount of hours the
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average person works in a lifetime.
Do you really want to spend that much
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of your life living out purely transactional
relationships? Do you want to make your
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people do that, or do you
want to enjoy the people you work with,
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have fun together and build something you're
all proud of? Okay, so
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personal connection is important. We get
it, but what am I supposed to
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do, might ask. We've got
to get work done and I can't exactly
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pretend we're not a remote company.
The answer is you take the advice of
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your nerdy type, a uncle billy
who plans out every second of your trip
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to the cat skills, and you
schedule some fun. Train your managers to
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set the expectation that the first ten
minutes of meetings will be spent catching up
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and sharing what people are excited about
in life at the moment, and instead
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of cutting a meeting short if it
ends early, the owner of the meeting
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should give people the option to hang
around for the remainder of the scheduled time
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to chat and hang out. It
does feel awkward at first, if I'm
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being honest, and you may need
to have a prepared set of questions to
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stimulate conversation in those types of settings, but the reward is well worth it.
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Set an example for the rest of
the company by showing the taking a
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few minutes off from head down work
can actually produce major benefits, according to
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Ron Freedman's book, the best place
to work. In the past, taking
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breaks at work was seen as lazy
or unproductive, and that was true for
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line workers and factories, whose productivity
did depend directly on the hours they put
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in. But in today's knowledge economy, it's the quality of your thinking that
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matters most, says Freedman, and
the quality of your thinking is directly tied
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to energy level and I think we
might add employee engagement. In that same
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book, Freedman Discusses The human evolutionary
need for both what he calls caves and
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campfires. Caves Give us the Privacy
and distraction free environment to focus and work
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unhindered. Remote companies have caves in
spades by the very nature of how they
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are set up. We don't need
to make that happen. The bigger problem
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is creating spaces for camp fires or
social gatherings where team members can join each
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other, share stories, connect,
laugh and bounce ideas off one another.
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It's sweet fish. We're still learning
other ways to personally connect with each other.
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We are still figuring out how to
build remote campfires. With all the
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benefits of working remotely, the difficulty
of Facilitating Organic, enjoyable interactions between team
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members might just be our biggest challenge. We're trying out video happy hours,
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team parties and open offices to stay
tuned. But there's one thing I know
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for sure. Helping our team personally
connect with each other is not a bonus
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or nice to have effort. It's
central to the health of our remote team
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and we won't stop experimenting until we're
successful.